Korean women are gorgeous with their thin bodies and cute faces. Ever since I saw the movie ‘You Only Live Twice’ with James Bond’s Japanese woman I fell for Asian women. Their exotic look just pulled me right in. The thing is that it’s not just their looks that are exotic…so is their culture.
Relationships are always a challenge (especially between two genders). Add into the mix the radical cultural differences and you have an interaction of epic proportions!
Let’s make it easier for everyone.
I’m sure you either have a Korean woman you want to date or beautiful Korean women surround you (or both!) Before we go into how lucky you are let’s talk about what you can do specifically to boost your chances with a Korean woman.
I’ve created the 10 things worth doing before going on a date with a Korean woman that are more powerful than saying “dress well” and “smell good”. Let’s move on to what REALLY makes a difference.
#10 – Plan Ahead
Most dates don’t work at all because guys just ‘wing them’ or follow some idea they saw on a sitcom. If you want to make the date work then do yourself and her a favor: plan it out beyond ‘picking a place to eat’. When I was dating I would research online for some nice places or even just walk around to find novel coffee shops or restaurants…especially if I was on a budget. I would give myself an hour before the date to plan out everything.
On that note:
#9 – Know What You Want
For your plan to work it’s good to know what you want! Do you want a girlfriend or casual dating? Or maybe you just want a one-time affair pronto. Depending on what you want your date will have to go differently.
For a long-term girlfriend you might want to string out the dating to see if she’s a good long-term match. For a casual date you can get more intimate on that date. For a one-time affair you might even want to skip the date!
What’s more: If you’re in tune with what you want you’re more likely to do the work to make the date a success.
#8 – Know What She Wants
It’s good to know what she wants to find out if there’s a match. Now no woman (especially a Korean woman) will ever confess to wanting a one-time affair so if you’re looking for a fling you’ll have to do some homework. I recommend indirectly discovering what she wants whether it be a fling or to be your girlfriend. More on what makes a good girlfriend and how to seek out things indirectly by clicking on the link.
#7 – Do a Self-Audit
Wanting to date a beautiful Korean woman is great…if you have the means to. Do you have the time and money to go out on dates and such? Or is your life a bit uncertain currently and adding a woman into the mix would make it more volatile? Don’t believe the movies where a woman solves all the problems. 😉
#6 – Have a Script
I hate to say it but I recommend having things prepared to talk about during the date to make yourself more attractive and the date more interesting. Remember that women love talking about emotions and stories and such more than facts and politics (which your guy friends would enjoy more. Some men just know what to talk about to build that rapport – no matter where she comes from. Find out what makes a man attractive when you click on the link.
Okay so #6 to #10 was more about yourself and women in general. What are some things you can do for a Korean woman specifically?
#5 – Lower Your Expectations
You’re going to date internationally. If you thought that dating a woman was tough – wait until you’ve dated someone from a different culture! You’ll have value and language differences that would make any head spin around…twice! So I recommend taking it easy and keeping your expectations low. If the date turns out to just you two barely being able to communicate then so be it! That being said…
#4 – Know And Keep Your Standards
When you’re about to go on a date it’s important to keep your standards (that is if you know what they are first.) I recommend knowing the top 10 things that you DON’T want in a woman or a date. They can range from big to small things. For example I don’t like a woman who doesn’t know how to chew her food properly. I’ve had dates with Korean women where they would munch away and talk at the same time. I grew up in a French household so I had to ask her to chew first and then talk. There’s no hurry to eat after all. 😉
#3 – Expect Cultural Differences
Beyond the language and value barrier I recommend that you prepare yourself for other things as well. I’ve had dates with Korean women where they would appear with a chaperone or friend! I had to explain that in the West we don’t do that. Or you can expect to foot the bill or at least pay for the more expensive things. If you don’t it’s not a question of you being cheap – it’s a question of you not liking her enough to pay for her. She loses face and that can matter to her. At the same time take advantage of them! Know what and what not to talk about. Find out more about Korean dating culture by clicking on the link.
#2 – Speak SOME Korean
Okay you saw this coming. If you want to impress your Korean date in the QUICKEST way possible then just say some Korean words to her. Even small things like “Chincha?” (which means ‘Really?’) or “Assa!” (which means ‘oh yeah!’) can make a big difference.
#1 – Have fun and Learn!
Whatever happens (and this is so cliché) have fun! You’re in for a wild ride and after 5 years of meeting and dating Korean women I can say that it was and will continue to be a blast. That being said make sure you reflect on your dates as well. I recommend doing what I do which is to write down 3 things you did well, 3 things you will improve on your next date with her, 3 things you’ve learned.