Aren’t women the same around the world?
Can’t you just meet women like ‘normal people’?
Perhaps but I wouldn’t know. I never had a ‘normal’ childhood.
For me I was lucky (or unlucky) based on how you want to see it because I
• grew up in a religiously strict household
• lived and was raised in at least 5 different cultures
• always loved women
this has made me who I am to an extent and what has given birth to my site.
Growing Up Under Religion
If you think living under one strict religion was tough – try two!
I was born in to two religious parents. My father was Christian and my mother was Muslim.
As I reached my teenage years my parents were very strict and never let me hang out with girls. You can probably relate. Instead I was forced into studying and since I wasn’t overly bright I had to study double-duty.
If it was just about not hanging out with women that would be okay. Instead I was shamed into not thinking sexual thoughts about women. If you’ve been there then you know how devastating that can be to your love life.
I understand that it’s to protect you during your educational years but what a price. If only our parents told us at a certain age that we could forget the shame. That would be okay.
Sadly I didn’t get that memo. I spent my young years single and quite alone.
It wasn’t until I came to Korea that I decided to change my attitude towards women and sex. Living away from your parents’ influence and in a different culture forces you to open your eyes and think for yourself.
That’s why I recommend teaching English in Korea.
Growing Up In Various Cultures
My mother’s culture (Algerian) is as strict about studies as Asian culture. Only I wouldn’t really know as I was never raised only in Algeria.
Instead I grew up in many countries. I was born in Texas but lived around the world in places like Spain, Algeria and the UAE. This gave me an interest in various cultures and the ability to objectively look at them.
You may think I was spoiled. I probably was and I loved the overseas lifestyle. It gave me an ability to relate to people more easily and learn languages quickly.
But it also left me having to cut relationships short and leave intimate ties. This made me closed off when I was a teenager. It wasn’t until I moved to Korea and learned from some mentors that I was able to face this.
All I know is that I didn’t want anyone to feel so closed off when making relationships with others. This was a big reason for me to create my Korea-Dating-Tips site. It was a way for me to help others who struggled with connecting with other people intimately.
When You Always Love Women
For me I’ve always loved women. I loved how they acted, smiled, etc…I won’t get too cheesy but I always want to be intimate with them.
Sadly I didn’t know how. I think I was good looking enough but didn’t know how to go from ‘just friends’ to more. Even when they wanted me to make a move!
So I sought out help. I searched the internet and found out about ‘Game’. It gave me a model to meet women with. When I came to Korea I had to change myself to calibrate for Korean women.
I quickly realized how scary it was for most Korean women to talk with a stranger (let alone a foreigner.) Through trial and error with good guidance I was able to interact with Korean women anywhere. I was also able to start dating some. Learning the language helped too.
Sadly this process was very painful and not one I would want for other foreigners coming to Korea. So I decided to create Korea-Dating-Tips to help foreign men and women understand Korean culture and the people as well.
Find a Mission Worth Fulfilling
Granted, helping guys and girls get intimate may not sound like a proper purpose. For me it is. I want to make sure that my culture shock and disappointments would help someone who was in my shoes 5 years ago. I’m glad my Korean dating tips site can do that now. You can learn from my mistakes and date a Korean more easily and successfully.